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The only person who is a douch is the people that harass a person over and over for 5 years.
And when finally the person stands up for them selfs you guys get conflicted.

You are detached from reality and it really shows every time you post something.

Saying first names does not break TOS.
Starting drama does not break TOS.
Standing up for myself does not break TOS.

Maybe you are detached from reality if I can't do these three things.

You are correct those things do not break TOS. Hate speech breaks TOS. Using racial slurs breaks TOS. That is why your journal was suspended- hate speech. You are so quick to point out everyone else breaking TOS, but you won't take the time to read it and follow it yourself. All you want to do is use it as a reason to fight or be a 'victim'. If you cannot handle Vampire Rave, then maybe you should find another hobby.

I don't even know why I waste my time as it always falls on deaf ears with you. You like what you do. You like how you act. You like the attention. You like when people fight with you. You like the negativity of it all. You like to just be detached from what is really going on.

I'm not wasting my time with you because that's all it is, wasting time. It's like explaining things to a wall, and yet the wall would understand it sooner than you.

Funny, how the guilty will always out themselves. Makes it obvious they KNOW they are in the wrong when the situation is presented.

"And the truth shall set you free!" It truly is the guilty that out themselves, every single time. Perhaps one day someone will make a new site for people who love drama. One where they can simply go and argue about whatever they so choose; where they can have a safe haven to have their online feuds. Then places like this where people want to have a nice enjoyable escape from real life will be left untainted by the ignorance of others.

Lol when someone has an attitude SO BAD they can't read something like this without assuming it's about them. Hilariously the things that she's listed are all things she's repeatedly reported OTHER people for doing. She knows those things aren't against TOS because we are the ones who told her each time she tried to get someone else in trouble.
So what does she do? She uses it as permission to take part in terrible behavior. Instead of being a bigger person, it's her license to be just as nasty.
It just cracks me up.

Stole the words out of my mouth MySpoonIsTooBig, The guilty are always the first to speak up and make sure everyone knows JUST who the general message is about. You push the people who volunteer their time and effort to keep your "safe haven" alive to the point of breaking character and speaking how they truly fee. It is really unfair and sad how you treat them and your fellow members here. In a place where acceptance is supposed to be everything you make people uncomfortable with hate speech. I know I don't appreciate reading things like that. I know I wouldn't want my children reading things like that. So who does?

@ Morri- For sure. I don't think she'll ever fully grasp adulthood or reality. It's sad.

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Well Shit.. my comment went bye bye. I said C(and)T- I agree with you both. People always out themselves around here in one way or another.

From my vantage ReaperSoulMate is one of those who came to V.R. when they were young and has been here since. As far as behavior goes V.R. is partially responsible for it. So when a member is going through trials like when worried about a job and becomes short fused I don't think talking all this shit on admin journals is helping the situation. It seems to me to just cause alienation. But perhaps I have a biased opinion because I'm not here like admins putting up with stuff on daily basis. Yes, I agree use of N word to hurt someone is wrong and worthy of suspension period.

It is very very sad.

With everything going on in this world the last thing anyone needs to be doing is using racial slurs, promoting ignorance, and promoting hatred. Once these things are done its damn impossible to take them back. We have children dying due hate crimes and ignorance. We have fighting and people vandalizing pieces of history....I think there is enough ignorance, hatred, and downright lack of intelligence flooding the world. I know I at times am not perfect but thank you Moonie and the other admins for doing your jobs.

Neowise, I have no clue what situation you referring to when you say "So when a member is going through trials like when worried about a job and becomes short fused I don't think talking all this shit on admin journals is helping the situation". No one is saying anything about someone having a hard time and losing their temper. We are talking about constant bad behavior and then trying to justify it.

DarknessAwakened, just don't. You instigate things all the time. Everything I've said in this journal can also apply to you. By you just sitting there and saying 'I'm not perfect' and keep doing the same fighting, drama and meanness over and over again is no better than anything I'm pointing out.

@Neowise2020 quit the enabling self pity crap. Every person here is held to the same standards, it's no one's fault but the perpetrator. She can't keep her nose clean regardless of who does or doesn't say anything. Us calling out this behavior SHOULD be enough to set someone straight but not here, so spare me the pity party for an instigator.

I like how now apparently someone being racist is our fault because we're admins. I didn't know I had that kind of power. MOONIE, WE CAN END RACISM!!!

We are UNSTOPPABLE!

@Morrigon I'm not here to go back and forth with drama. I stated my opinion and it rests as people here are PARTIALLY responsible. Besides I really don't understand that psychobabble your spewing can you break it down for me privately in a message or do you need an audience?

I would just like to point out that AT NO POINT did this journal entry name ANY ONE MEMBER. The faulty outed themselves. Had said person not done so NO ONE would have known exactly whom was being spoken of. That person in turn came and attacked Moonie, at that point a retort was given and not uncalled for. EVERY SINGLE PERSON goes through things, but that doesn't give ANY ONE PERSON the right to blatantly break the rules redundantly. The amount of people I personally can speak of that I suspend that are REPEAT offenders is absurd! Every person is responsible for his/her own actions. YES people like to push buttons and stir the pot, but every one of us has the ability to choose how we respond. It is how a person carries themselves that speaks for their character.... that said... the evidence speaks for itself on all repeating offender.

I don't see any "psychobabble" here. It is already in plain English. If anyone thinks that this website is responsible for creating the poor behaviors of the members then why would it ban and punish the members that show these poor behaviors. Having a bad day does not give you the right to be hateful and insensitive to others.

Sorry was that too complicated? let me try again...
If you be a bad boy or girl or other then you go to time out.

NoNo! don't be a potty mouth. That might hurt someone's feelings!

Better?

@Tab.. Exactly.

@Occult.. You want her to break down what she's saying (which I thought was pretty easy to understand- no one is above anyone, she can't keep her nose clean, she instigates and participates then claims to be a victim, she's been called on it in private and public and it doesn't change) but I still have no clue as to what you were talking about with jobs, hard times and things that hold no bearings on the situation.

What I've said here isn't anything I've not said in private before this and just been basically told "It doesn't matter if I'm wrong, I do what I want". Partially responsible, no. Saying that to someone means they've made their choices and act how they want to act.

@OccultRanger Look it up yourself, seems like it would do you some good.

Smh